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God Can Bring Beauty from Ashes: He Will Not Waste Our Pain

March 25, 2016 by Debbie 27 Comments

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beauty for ashes 1Throughout the Bible and ancient practices, ashes have often been the symbol of deep repentance and grief.

As the days of Lent begin each year, we see all around us the visual reminders of ashes on foreheads, and we are reminded of this one Truth, “…for dust you are and to dust you will return.” Gen. 3:19

Not exactly a nice, happy thought to get your day going. But at certain times, the reality of it all sinks in deep. Because, as many of us know, life is not always “happy.”

Sometimes it hurts.

Sometimes it’s tough.

Sometimes it’s dark.

And it leaves its mark, like ashes of grief, in the deepest parts of our souls, where no one but God can really see.

You may understand if…

– You’ve ever lost a loved one or had to say good-bye too soon, left to journey through dark days of grief, wondering if you’d ever be able to carry on without them at your side…

– You’ve ever received a hard diagnosis, faced the fear of the unknown, and felt the effects of disease and pain…

– You’ve ever sat at the bedside of a dying friend, and held a hand that once was strong, whose life had been cut short from the ravages of cancer…

– You’ve ever been to a funeral for a sweet baby, or a precious child, and watched endless tears flow from hurting souls of a Mama and Daddy….

– You’ve ever been deeply wounded, betrayed, abused, or mistreated…

Yes, it’s true, life is not always happy. It’s not always easy. It deals harshly sometimes, it seems unfair, and we may wonder where God is, or why He didn’t stop that difficult event or illness from happening.

Job was there too. This righteous man who loved and honored God. Yet he lost everything. It crumbled around him, all he held dear. And he knew without God, he was nothing. And we find him in the beginning of the book of Job, “…he sat in the ashes.” Job 2:8

Daniel was there. He and the people had suffered under captivity, he prayed to God on behalf of his people, that God would have mercy. He repented, and confessed his own sin, his deep need for Him. He knew where true strength and help came from,“Then I turned my face to the Lord God, seeking him by prayer and pleas for mercy with fasting and sackcloth and ashes.” Daniel 9:3

Tamar was there. She had trusted and yet was betrayed. David’s own daughter had been taken advantage of, then was left on her own, alone, with no hope for her future, to pick up the broken pieces of shattered life. “And Tamar put ashes on her head and tore the long robe that she wore. And she laid her hand on her head and went away, crying aloud as she went.” 2 Sam. 13:19

And in their times of ashes, they may have wondered too…

Where was God in it all? Where is He now? Deep grief, crime, captivity, illness, death of loved ones, shattered hope, and broken dreams?

His Truth says this: He was there. In the midst of it all.

And though we may not always see it, or feel it, or even understand it, we can know beyond a doubt, that He is now. Still. He is with us.

For He will never leave us or forsake us, His love for us in greater than we could ever imagine, though we live in a world where we face trouble many days.

Jesus reminds us in John 16:33, “In this world you will have trouble, but take courage, for I have overcome the world.”

That’s the very key to the ashes that cover our days in this life. The deeper Truth that shines through every bit of our grief, and pain, and sin. Christ came to set us free. He came to redeem, to bring hope.

Christ came to bring beauty from ashes.

“The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives, and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion – to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor.” Is. 61:1-3

He never intends for us to stay stuck in our sin, pain, or deep sorrow. He heals and restores, He calls us onward, He reminds us that in Him, we have great purpose and hope.

There’s beauty and greatness behind every mark of darkness. The ashes will fall away, they don’t stay forever, but His greatness and glory shine forever through every broken place and flaw we’ve struggled through.

Three days after Christ was buried…out of the dark, out of the dust, out of the tomb…He arose.

Death had no hold on our Savior, and it has no hold on us, because of the price He paid on our behalf.

He conquered death. He lives forever. He reigns in glory. And we have victory in Him!

Take courage dear friends who are facing deep battles. He is greater than any enemy we face in this life. We overcome because He has overcome and our lives are hidden in Christ. May God cover you with peace, may He bring healing in the face of hard news, may He bring deep, abiding joy that makes no sense to the world, may He bring comfort and care as He wraps you in His arms. The God of miracles fights for you today, and He is Mighty.

There’s still beauty ahead…straight out of ashes.

Christ redeems.

Grace.

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  1. Trish says

    March 25, 2016 at 11:21 pm

    Thank you so much for reminding me of these encouraging words.

    Reply
    • Debbie says

      March 26, 2016 at 8:19 am

      Thank you so much for reading & being here Trish, have a very blessed weekend. 🙂

      Reply
      • Tricia says

        February 27, 2020 at 5:00 pm

        Thank you. God bless you

        Reply
  2. Laurie says

    March 26, 2016 at 9:27 am

    Thank you for encouragement and always pointing us to the one who gives us hope ….. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
    Be blessed!

    Reply
    • Debbie McDaniel says

      April 11, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      You too Laurie, blessings to you, thank you for reading. ❤️

      Reply
  3. Joyce says

    March 1, 2017 at 1:34 pm

    Thank you for sharing….I am almost 74 years old……HE does Heal and Restores….Thankful for all He has none in my life…Giving Him all the Glory…..God bless you Debbie….

    Reply
    • Kiki says

      March 1, 2017 at 11:27 pm

      Hey Joyce, will you share your healing so we can learn from you and restore hope to those who have lost it?

      Reply
  4. Joy-Lynn Abplanalp says

    March 1, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    Beautiful and timely encouragement Debbie. God bless you abundantly for uplifting us & reminding us of God’s eternal love & goodness even in dark times. He’s there ever present.

    Reply
  5. Drew says

    March 1, 2017 at 11:27 pm

    Beautiful reminder of how undeniable and infinitely strong God’s love is for us. To have unflinching faith is to firmly believe you will be able to overcome your troubles and become a better person because of it.

    Reply
    • inan says

      May 10, 2019 at 5:08 pm

      thanks God bless us all

      Reply
  6. Jason says

    March 1, 2017 at 11:53 pm

    This is a great post, thanks for sharing

    Reply
  7. April Boyer says

    March 2, 2017 at 9:32 am

    Perfect reminder in this season. and in our season. So many hurting, so many reaching up in faith. Praise God. Thank you!

    Reply
  8. Karin says

    March 2, 2017 at 11:57 am

    Thanks for such a reminder that Christ brings hope in the darkest of times!

    Reply
  9. Bethany says

    March 2, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    I loved all the verses you pulled together about ashes! Thank you for your thoughts on this.

    Reply
  10. Connie says

    February 14, 2018 at 2:28 pm

    This is beautifully written and a great reminder that the Lord is there forbthe broken hearted. I lost my mother September 2016 and my Faith and the unconditional love of God has helped my heart heal. Thank you for sharing! Blessings and Love, Connie

    Reply
  11. Timberley says

    February 14, 2018 at 2:35 pm

    Great post, I love this…”Death had no hold on our Savior, and it has no hold on us…” We need to be reminded of this so that we don’t lose hope. Stopping by from By His Grace Bloggers.

    Reply
  12. Missy says

    February 15, 2018 at 8:20 pm

    Beautiful word! ❤

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  13. Lourine says

    June 1, 2018 at 11:05 pm

    Thank you so much the encouragement!! Faith deepened. My trust is rooted in Him more. Thank you God for beauty after the ashes!

    Reply
  14. deeptichannaiah says

    October 26, 2018 at 6:00 am

    God values everything a believer goes through and will accomplish something great! Thanks for sharing!

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  15. Bella says

    March 4, 2019 at 10:04 am

    thanks for sharing Debbie.

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  16. Rebecca Jones says

    March 4, 2019 at 2:41 pm

    I love that verse, and whole concept of beauty for ashes, what He suffered to gives us that we can’t comprehend.

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  17. Nomahlosi says

    March 7, 2019 at 12:51 am

    Thank u so much for your encouragemen and reminding us that we should not loose hope and be strong. Always have trust in God for He knows everything.

    Reply
  18. Rhonda Holmes says

    March 16, 2019 at 6:39 am

    Wow! I love the verses Isaiah 61:1-3. So powerful! God is sovereign. God loves us east to west. He only asks us to believe and trust, and He does the rest for us in the little things and in the hardest battles. Wow. What a God we serve!! Thank you for serving the Lord and encouraging. I just discovered your blog. Loving it!

    Reply
  19. Judy says

    March 4, 2020 at 12:05 am

    Hi Debbie. Thank you for this piece. Indeed He is a wonderful God, God of miracles we serve.

    Reply
  20. Laura says

    April 5, 2020 at 1:12 am

    Thank you so much for giving me these words of peace.

    Reply
  21. Beverly Painter says

    July 31, 2020 at 7:51 am

    I cannot express the encouragement your words brought to me this morning. A healing balm.
    I am grateful, Beverly

    Reply
  22. Jane says

    October 26, 2020 at 2:36 pm

    Hi Debbie. My friend Vanessa and I meet via telephone most evenings at 8pm to take communion and pray for our family. I mentioned to her this evening that I received great revelation on Psalm 61 during the course of today. She sent me the link to this message that you blogged. What a wonderful message and addition to my revelation! Thank you. For the record, I’m from South Africa!😃

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